Hi.  My name is Kirk.


I offer 15 years of experience in transformative bodywork in Sonoma County and the entire San Francisco Bay Area. I utilize a combination of Swedish-Esalen, Deep Tissue, Acupressure, Stretching and some intuitive magic. We will journey deep together. Promise. 

Strong, PRESENT, and very nurturing...

After these many years, I have an extremely good sense of what all men – gay, bi, straight & curious – want to feel in a massage from another man. Sometimes we need to feel touched, held, soothed, connected – to ourselves, others, and the world around us.

My strong hands and heart await you in a 5'10" 170 lb. frame.

Please state your goal... relaxation, therapeutic relief, emotional healing, human connection. I can help on many fronts. My sessions are therapeutic in nature and operate on multiple levels that bring happiness and wholeness to body, mind & spirit. Please be clear about exactly what you are looking for so I can be clear about what I offer.

May we soon be in touch,


Sex, Intimacy and Relationship Coaching for Men 

Dating life got you down? Lacking “game” and feeling shut down? Seeking more intimate relationships with more sexual satisfaction? I help my clients fulfill their needs and desires. I am a graduate of the Somatica Method. Utilizing skills learned here, and my own unique, embodiment counseling approach, I offer my services as an intuitive coach. We all get stuck in the proverbial ditch at times. Consider my support roadside assistance for the disembodied soul. Together, we can get you rolling toward a more fulfilling sex life and healthier, authentic relationships. 

I specialize in dating challenges, fear of intimacy, relationship stressors, sexual orientation, sexual challenges & fulfillment, men's issues, and the Saturn Return. This work is done through intimate, shame-free dialogue and arousing embodiment practices. Please fill out my intake questionnaire to start the conversation and find out if we are a good fit. 




Noteworthy praise from happy clients...

Kirk was absolutely amazing!! He was so warm and welcoming but it went beyond that. From our first handshake I felt an instant almost spiritual connection. That connection only intensified throughout the massage. The massage was technically perfect. He really worked my trouble spots deeply, constantly reminding me, through his own breath work to breathe deep and exhale. It made such a difference. I was practically in a meditative state. I literally felt his healing energy transfer into my body. He is such a kind and giving man. Beautiful on the outside and inside! I can’t wait to see him again and build on this journey we started!
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— Dave in Seattle
What a great guy! I get massages regularly and Kirk is a cut above. Great technique, truly healing spirit and secluded hilltop location for anyone needing discretion. So happy I found him. You will be too.
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— Everett from Santa Rosa
Kirk was warm, welcoming and patient, taking the time to listen to my needs before he began, and perfectly tailoring the experience to meet them. Just the right amount of pressure, which was good for someone not having had a massage in quite a while. Will definitely return to see him when he’s in SF.
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— Neil from San Francisco
Time booked with Kirk is time well spent for not only your body but also your soul. Kirk is a true healer; before starting our experience he asked several questions to understand any issues we could address and from there they simply melted away... Throughout the treatment Kirk was accommodating. His touch was intuitive and the massage was just what I needed to truly relax, lift away blockages and simply remember how to enjoy a sensual and intimate experience. The session allowed me to connect to a natural energy and sense of self I haven’t felt in a while. After our time together my body felt better and so did my spirit—he is light, warm, uplifting and respectful. Simply put, the best.
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— John from Baltimore, Maryland
Kirk was very responsive in setting up an in-call appointment in San Francisco. His work is my favorite kind of massage—fully present, working slow deep pressure with deep attunement and caring for what my body needs and wants. He was responsive to communication and flexible enough to give plenty of attention to my favorite spots and adjust his pressure as needed. I highly recommend him... Looking forward to returning. One of the best in SF!
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— Mark from San Francisco

More than just a massage ... if you want it to be.



For some, bodywork is about relaxation and stress relief. 

For others, it is an opportunity to explore cognitive / spiritual / psycho-sensoral realms on a path toward healing, wholeness and awakening. 

No matter your preference, together we will tailor an experience just for you.



The Session


LUxuriate in THE temple that is your body

Surrender to a 60 or 90 minute bodywork session that integrates the best of Swedish-Esalen, Deep Tissue, and Stretching.

Sessions are highly intuitive and may integrate Lymphatic Drainage and trance-inducing, re-patterning techniques.




The healing power of conscious breathwork is encouraged to foster wholeness, balance, and feelings of connectivity and well being. Body Electric techniques may be employed.

My sessions harness the power of touch to cultivate prana ("life force") and enhance the body's ability to open and receive, heal and revitalize.


Your Soundtrack



As a musician, I believe music is a powerful healing tool that can enhance a transformative bodywork session.  The music will influence what happens. 


This season's playlist:


Jerusalem   ♬   Steven Halpern

Jo   ♬   Goldfrapp

Everybody's Got To Learn Sometime   ♬   Beck

Alone in Kyoto   ♬   Air

Nowhere Near   ♬   Yo La Tengo

Place to Be  ♬   Nick Drake

Famous Blue Raincoat   ♬   Leonard Cohen

Hayling   ♬   FC Kahuna

Ladies and Gentlemen We Are Floating in Space   ♬   Spiritualized

The Killing Moon   ♬   Nouvelle Vague

Talisman   ♬   Air

Billie Holiday   ♬   Warpaint

Highschool Lover   ♬   Air

What I Know   ♬   Trevor Hall

The Only Living Boy in New York   ♬   Simon & Garfunkel

Venus   ♬   Air

New Dawn   ♬   Moon Duo

Touch Me I'm Going to Scream, Pt. 2   ♬   My Morning Jacket

Sanvean - I Am Your Shadow   ♬   Lisa Gerrard

Annabel   ♬   Goldfrapp

Blast Off   ♬   Random Rab

Cruel World   ♬   Active Child

Cherry Blossom Girl   ♬   Air




It's okay to arrive early for incalls, however, I will usually only be able to come greet you at our designated start time. I will be either finishing with a client or recharging for your session. 

You Come to Me…

Four San Francisco Bay Area Locations:

The Castro District
North Berkeley

I offer my outcall services from 4 different locations in the SF Bay Area: The Castro District, NOPA, North Berkeley and Sebastopol in Sonoma County. Studio location given upon appointment confirmation.

I Come to You…

I travel throughout the SF Bay Area & Beyond

San Francisco, East Bay, Marin & Sonoma Counties

I offer my outcall services throughout SF, the east bay, and the north bay. This includes SF, Contra Costa, Alameda, Marin, Sonoma and Napa counties. I see clients regularly in Oakland, Berkeley, Sebastopol, Santa Rosa, Guerneville, Forestville, Healdsburg, Bodega Bay, Petaluma, Rohnert Park, Rincon Valley, Sonoma, Occidental, Graton, Cloverdale, Napa, Sonoma, San Rafael, Fairfax, Larkspur and Sausalito.


I visit Sacramento every month.


I visit Phoenix semi-annually. 

Los Angeles, San Diego, Palm Springs, Portland, Seattle

I usually visit these cities once a year.


Please contact me via the form below and I will let you know via text when I'm in your town next.




90 MIN/$170
60 MIN/$140

Ask for $10 off for all sessions in Sebastopol studio!



90 MIN/$200
60 MIN/$170

PLEASE NOTE:   First 30 minutes of roundtrip travel time (15 min each way) is included.  One dollar charge for every minute thereafter.


Student & teacher discounts may be available. Please ask.  



F A Q s

Is there a difference between bodywork and massage therapy?

Sometimes these words can be used interchageably. However, whereas traditional massage therapy sessions are often akin to treatments received at spas -- where the focus is largely on muscle groups -- bodywork sessions often allow for this AND a deeper, psycho-spiritual-emotional connection where stored/repressed thoughts and feelings are released. Those in transitional periods of life or on paths of personal growth tend to seek out bodyworkers.

Is there anthing I can do to prepare for a session?

If possible, soak in a tub or take a long hot shower for at least 15 minutes before your session. Loosening the body will enhance your experience. General hygenine is of course appreciated.

Please fill out the Intake Questionnaire to maximize the potency of our time together.

Is it okay to arrive early?

Yes, but please do not knock or expect to be seen until your designated start time as I may be with a client or recharging in preperation for your session. Please text upon arrival. I will have my ringer turned off but will see that you have arrived.

Is it customary to tip a bodywork?

Like other service industries, if you find benefit from your experience and are financially capable, gratuities are always appreciated.

"The Buddha said that no true spiritual life is possible without a generous heart. Generosity allies itself with an inner feeling of abundance — the feeling that we have enough to share."

I have learned that as a practice, generosity opens the heart and is the best way to turn scarcity into personal prosperity. A sweet li'l paradox. Try it in your daily life and see.

Why does the cost of a bodyworker session sometimes feel inflated?

While this question is certainly relative to one's income, here's a great answer.

Is there anything I should do after my session?

Yes, drink at least two glasses of water. Your lymphatic system will be getting attention and will be releasing many stored toxins. It's ideal to flush them while muscles are relaxed.

Contact Kirk

Discretion is absolutely guaranteed. Late night messaging is welcome. 

Via Text or Phone:
(707) 341-6264


Please note: Response time for emails may take anywhere from 1 to 48 hours.
Texting is always recommended for a timely response.


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